Thursday, July 23, 2009

Are You Emotionally Ready

There is no doubt your emotional will magically change by smile of your little baby.But to give him or her loverble caring both of you think about the emotional and lifestyle issues you will face as a parent. Its important for both partners to agree on most of the major issues, or begin discussing differences, before conceive.

Certainly, becoming a parent will change your life profoundly. So how do you know if you'll cope
with the huge impact a baby will have on your life and what can you do to get ready for the
parenthood journey?

Do you really want to have a baby? Or because of your partner, a parent or someone else pressuring you? You’re emotionally ready to have a baby if you're having it for the right reasons, with the right person, at the right time, and go into it with realistic expectations
of yourself, each other, and your relationship.

The emotional demands of parenthood on each partner are enormous.Each must be prepared to commit to communicating and connecting to a new baby at all times and be able to accept the constant demands of a baby.

Child affect your relationship with your partner.Therefor if you both ready to become parents, It is much easier to raise a child without stressing. Having a baby often puts a strain on the marriage, since the raising of a child can be quite stressful.


Before you become a parent both parters has to make some behavior changes.We strongly recommend that before you try to get pregnant, both should stop smoking, stop drinking alcohol, and stop recreational drug use. You should eat a healthy diet and avoid exposure to chemicals and pollutants that may harm you and your baby or in some way jeopardize or compromise a healthy pregnancy.

We also recommend paying serious attention to your work and home environment and that of the child's father. Studies have shown that a man's sperm can be affected by chemical exposure and that the effects on pregnancy are most likely to occur from exposures in the three months before conception. This is because sperm matures in the testes over a three month period. A father's exposure to chemicals, such as some pesticides, has been linked to miscarriage and premature babies.

It is easier to make behavior changes when you work on together. Working together this way can also help bring you closer and help you build a strong and healthy family unit.Also it will be more benefits to raise your baby's physical and mental health,if both of you clean up your minds by relief your stress away through meditation or following any relaxation program, doing yoga and uplifting your religion or spiritual life.

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